The tears .....

The will-power, inner strength, patience - all these human qualities/traits are so relative ! When we call someone being mentally very "strong" , the next moment he/she 's found crying in some dark corner .... or somebody who's really very patient .. sometimes you find him/her furious over a stupid joke played on him/her ...... and why not ? .. after all we are all HUMANS ... nobody's perfect and all that ball-talk just to make someone feel better ......

A very close and dear friend of mine is going through this unpredictiveness of life and almost broke down into tears as she couldn't hold the pain of recieving failures at every end .......

now it would have been so foolish to console her by saying ..." it's ok ... it happens ... that's the way life is .... " and all such things ..... you make the other person even more weaker by saying such things ... it gives solace to his/her mind for that moment, but in the longer run he/she is just as unprepared and as weak as he/she was the last time ........ it's no good !!

Instead, I strongly believe that if one cares for the other person then he/she should try to make the other person more stronger and more prepared than ever for the challenges to come ahead ... and not only that, but one should himself/herself try to follow the same path when such times come hurling at him/her .....

It is very important to realise the power WORDS carry with them .... some use it to destroy others .... some use it to build .... and there are still some who just waste it ....... I really pity the third catagory of people ...... Therefore, the choice remains solely your's ..... would you choose to be a Devil or the Angel !

Think about it ! ......... I did !!

Till tommorow, take care.

Bye !

@mar